A question. A listening ear. A little direction for the journey.
With Dr. Crystal Jordan, L.H.D. · Founder, publisher & advocate
Some questions need a place to land. Write about school meetings, communication, caregiving, finding community, or making everyday life more inclusive. You do not have to have it all figured out to start the conversation.
These opening questions are selected by our editorial team. They are not presented as letters received from readers.
School & advocacy
What should I bring to my child’s IEP meeting?
Dear parent,
Start with your child’s strengths and the three concerns you most want the team to understand. Bring the current IEP, recent progress information, and a few dated examples. Write down what you want to ask so the pressure of the meeting does not have to carry your whole list.
Ask for unfamiliar terms to be explained and leave with a clear understanding of the next steps. Your child’s perspective belongs in the conversation, in whatever communication form works for them.
How can I start finding community when I’m already stretched thin?
Dear parent,
Give yourself permission to begin with one small connection. Ask a group what participation looks like before committing. A virtual conversation, a free community, or a local gathering can be a starting point; you do not have to join everything to belong somewhere.
Look for clear information, respect for your family’s privacy, and room to participate at a pace that works for you. Support should leave space for you as a person, as well as the care you give.
